One of my pics is published and is on the cover of ‘Oryx’ Feb 2010

I am happy to share that a London publishing house chose one of my pictures to be on the cover of one of the inflight magazines they publish - The Oryx, Feb edition. If you are flying the Qatar Airways this Feb, do check the cover page out.

Published - Oryx Cover Feb 2010

Here’s the link - Magazine’s online version

I had originally posted this image here on my flickr stream.

Aakasha Mallige

If you are familiar with Bangalore, you may have seen these flowers fallen on the streets - by far, one of the most fragrant flowers. These are called ‘Aakasha Mallige’ in Kannada, which literally translates to ‘Sky Jasmine’. The trees are tall and fill up with these flowers in the months of Aug, Sept, Oct, Nov. They bloom in the evenings, I think, and the flowers fall from the trees during the night. Some of the streets in Bangalore are lined with these trees and in the mornings when you go for a walk, you practically have a fragrant floral carpet to welcome you!

PS: I am terribly sorry for not writing here as much as I would like to. I have been very busy with a bunch of photography work and assignments; if not anything, I am hoping to at least update the blog about that work of mine.

The decade that went by

It was probably the most significant decade of my life - 2000 - 2009. I entered the decade newly married … starting out a new life with one of the nicest guys I know. We set up home, hit the road often, traveled a lot and had a fun, happy time. I know I will remember the earlier half of this decade fondly all my life.

I became a mom - we have 2 lovely children now. Parenting has been the most challenging thing I have ever done - I take it seriously, try and do my best as a mom, am always around for them and they are my number 1 priority. I doubt if anything will change that ever. I am glad I know my priorities when it comes to the basics. However, I may be pretty lost when it comes to prioritizing things that lie on the fringe. Oh well!

Hope they never lose their sense of wonder ...

The kids

Dad was diagnosed of cancer. All of us struggled a lot through that. The last years of this decade will probably signify that the most. He passed away a year ago - leaving behind sadness beyond measure in me. I didnt realise how shattering it could be losing somebody close. Losing him has changed me a lot - unknowingly I think of him way too much and feel terrible at our loss of his unconditional love. I feel especially bad when I think of what my children have lost. Some things are so irreplaceable.

Discovered blogosphere - I have always enjoyed writing, and found the medium of blogging to instantly publish myself very satisfying. The ease with which I could interact with other people helped a lot - I am glad the r2blore blog is of use to many others moving back to India after having lived abroad. I have worked as a writer in the US and continue to keep at it in spite of choosing to stay at home with the kids. I published my writings in the Deccan Herald and citizenmatters.in .

Founded and run a website - zeeksha.com . It acts especially as a forum for parents looking up school info for some of the cities in India. I realised how much parents are keen to research and do ground work before deciding on a school because of all the school talk on my blog. Zeeksha has picked up enough momentum and has reviews and feedback flowing in from many a parents and this has come to be a valuable resource for school and education info.

Marriage is a little more than a decade old now. Sure feels strange - I dont remember it being that old, but then … it is. We have stood by each other through all of it. I am happy with the choice I made of marrying whom I did.

It was also in this decade that I found one of the most satisfying things to do -  photography. While I have always enjoyed it and knew it since my teens, I didnt really pursue it in any sense of the word. But now, things are different. I know I enjoy it, I know I find it satisfying, I now also know that I enjoy doing it professionally. I did natural candid portrait shoots for families, did photoshoots for couples - again natural, not posed, did weddings too - again staying away from the posed cheesy kind of shots but shooting people and events to capture the moment. I have shoots lined up for the new year, weddings included.

My work was published in Better Photography (India) magazine. I have also been narrowed down as one of the finalists for the ‘Emerging Photographer of the Year’ on photofocus.com - See here.

2009 was a good year - I started taking up photoshoots, did writing assignments, and saw myself growing. Hopefully, 2010 will be more satisfying.  I have a facebook page for my photography - and currently am using that as a professional front for my work. I continue to upload on my flickr stream, which is where I started sharing my work initially.

So that’s how the decade has been for me. How has it been for you? Here’s wishing you all a very happy and prosperous 2010.

Break on through to the other side

Break on through to the other side … 

Monsoon in the Western Ghats

It is the typical November Bangalore weather now - winter is setting in, it is mostly cloudy with drizzles and there is that nip in the air. Makes you want to wind down, cuddle up with the family, read, play board games, leave the curtains open and let the dull light stream into your home. I love something about this whole thing - it makes me feel at peace, being at peace makes me feel happy, being happy means only one thing - a heart full of love. And you will never hear me complain about that.

As I see the drizzles and the rains from my window, I am reminded of the monsoons in the Ghats that we enjoyed completely. Our visit to Koppa in Chikkamagalur district a month ago gave us the opportunity to experience the monsoons in the Western Ghats. While it was nearing the end of the monsoon season, we didnt see it in all its glory, but experienced some of it to get a sense of it. The weirdest thing was it would start pouring like somebody up there opened a tap and then stop like somebody up there closed the tap too. We stayed at this lovely home-stay with its beautiful courtyard. When it rained, sitting and watching the rain in the courtyard was almost meditative. The kids loved the rains too - they were out and about with the umbrellas and enjoyed the clear water all around.

Chitra Aiyer - Rain dripping from the tiled roof

Seeing the rain drip from the tiled roofs always reminds me of rains in my native ancestral grandparent-homes in Kerala (this pic on flickr). However, I have never really experienced the monsoons in Kerala, having never been there in that season because of school in Bangalore. The dripping rain water from the roofs also forms these little pools of water you see in the pic below.

A row of little bowls with spurting pearly water drops.

Chitra Aiyer - Rain puddles from the tiled roof

We did many drives in these pours. Windshields awash with the mountain rains, all rivulets flowing with roaring waters, the Ghats saturated with the color green, and all the Ghat people going about their business under cover …. literally. One thing you always notice is how you never find anybody having weight issues in the Ghats … well, how can they? They are always navigating the terrains on foot or cycles,  sometimes navigating the mountains through short cuts that run steep; and that needs burning of calories to maneuver.

Chitra Aiyer - Rain or Shine ..

Here’s an elderly gentleman going about his day

Chitra Aiyer - Rains through the wind shield

The beautiful landscape, washed, scrubbed and in its green glory through the pouring rain on the windshield.

The little Ghat towns are all vernacular in their cuteness. The architectural scale is very human, the building materials are local/traditional, and the people warm. And the coconut trees are never out of the frame. Again, all of it reminds me a lot of my childhood vacations spent in remote corners of Kerala.
Chitra Aiyer - Rains in a little Ghat town

As we left the Ghats behind, I clicked this couple in the rains, from the car.  The elderly man and the little boy - each under his own umbrella, walking on the main road of their little town, chatting away, almost oblivious to the surrounds. This shot is one of my best - I love it for a variety of reasons - the camaraderie, the rains, the moment, and for what I felt when I looked at the LCD after. I hope you like it too.

Chitra Aiyer - Under the umbrella conversations

PS: I get only a few moments at a stretch. I have had to stop so many times while writing this post. It is a luxury to get an entire chunk of time to sit and write what I want to write - I dont have that luxury … and that is ok. I still loved writing this, I love the rains outside as I type this, I love the family that surrounds me, I love having had to get up as many times as I have had to for them. Everything about now is beautiful and I am thankful …

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All pics used here are mine. Please do not use without permission.

Review - Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day - Children’s Book

One of the things I have been wanting to write is reviews for children’s books. I do my best to try and introduce my kids to a variety of books. I have always enjoyed reading myself, but as an adult, I have at best struggled to keep at it. I dont know why that is. Almost because of that struggle, I try and do a decent job of reading with the kids. Hopefully, they will stay with the habit for a long time to come.

As parents, I think, one of the biggest gifts we can give our children is to introduce them to ‘words’ …. and to lots of them - to help them express themselves. The more words you know, the better you can articulate your emotions, your  ideas, your situations. While being better articulated will help you get across a thought to the next person, it will also help you communicate with yourself better is what I have always believed.

Anyway, coming back to starting off writing reviews, this is November and in India, we celebrate children’s day on 14th Nov. I figured now is as good as it can get to start writing children book reviews. Here, I pick the first book - Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day  by Judith Viorst.


Chitra Aiyer - Alexander and the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day

While this is a children’s book written for ages 5-9, it really is for everybody. It was first published in 1972, the story however is timeless.

“I went to sleep with gum in my mouth and now there’s gum in my hair and when I got out of bed this morning I tripped on the skateboard and by mistake I dropped my sweater in the sink while the water was running and I could tell it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.” is how the book starts. You can imagine how the rest of it is going to go. Everything in Alexander’s entire day goes horribly, horribly wrong - from not getting a window seat on the way to school to his teacher not liking his blank sheet of paper for artwork - which he calls the invisible castle, to being reduced to a 3rd best friend, to finding out he has a cavity while on a dentist’s chair, to getting hurt, pushed, being called a crybaby …. the list goes on. The day even ends badly with him getting to wear the pajama set that he hates and the family cat choosing to sleep with his brother! He is convinced about moving to Australia. The story ends with his mom telling him that things are going to pretty much be the same down under as well …. and that’s it.

I dont even need to teach this lesson to the kids, I can simply keep learning it over and over again myself :) … the reason why I think it is a great book for anybody. My 4+ year old doesnt really get the book. He just finds the events and the wordings funny. My 6+ year old daughter wasnt too sure she got it either, until we went over it a few times, drawing parallels with our own lives.

Judith Viorst has done well painting the picture of Alexander’s temperament, and Ray Cruz’s illustrations do complete justice too. My children prefer colorful illustrations, and here it is a black and white affair. However, I was able to get my older one to appreciate the detailed renderings of this book. 

My children are still too young for the funda of the story. However, they really liked the rhythmic repeat of the book’s title on every page and the funny turn of the sucky events.

This book has been adapted for TV and theatre. Read more about the book on Wiki.

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Incidentally, the Bangalore Book Festival is starting this weekend - From Nov 6th at Palace Grounds.

Charukesi’s ‘Itchy Feet’

Itchy Feet is one of those blogs that I completely love. It is written and maintained by Charukesi. I ran into Charu’s work first on flickr; from flickr, I went to her blog. I have known her on various social forums and even met up with her a couple of months ago.

There was this 1 post of hers that is my favorite and the minute I read that I realised I simply had to write about her and Itchy Feet on my own blog. Why - what was it about that post? Typically, we only hear what the person writing about a place thought of the place - how much he/she enjoyed it, what he/she did there. But here was a post that was very different from all of that. Here she was writing about how local kids in Sikkim went to school traversing through its mountainous terrain - she was able to look at it from their point of view, almost removing herself from the scene. It was also about children and education - 2 things that are very close to my heart combined with travel, another thing that is again very close to my heart. So, to me, that post won me over. It is wonderful to be able to paint a picture to the reader about some aspect of local life. Charu, being the good observer she is, does that so well for her readers. And not to mention, her pics are always fabulous - lovely tones and light in them. So here I am, introducing Charu and her travel blog. :)

Chitra Aiyer - Gurudongmar lake

Charu with her husband overlooking the Gurudongmar lake, Sikkim

She started blogging in late 2003. Blogging was a fairly new thing then and apparently she was encouraged by a friend to start. She started off writing a general blog - http://indsight.org/blog where she used to write regularly about social issues, especially gender and education - and advertising/marketing. She also used to post her travel stories on that blog and over a period of time found that she was writing more and more about her travels and so decided to start a separate travel blog dedicated to her travel stories and photography. That is how ‘Itchy Feet’ came to happen. When she started writing travel stories for publications, she found that this blog was a good place to post those stories for the record.

She calls herself an accidental photographer - she has a basic digital camera and goes about taking photographs with it - “they are mostly a record of my travels” she says. But her pics speak a thousand words, though that idiom is a cliche, one must only see her pics to get a feel of her travels. Well seen, and well shot … capturing the essence of any place.

Says Charu, “When I travel, I enjoy - and try to do it as much as possible - walk around the place to get a feel of it - find new shops, lanes, eateries - and I definitely like to sample local cuisine, as authentic as possible.” And you experience all of what she does through her beautiful narratives.

When asked to pick a spot that has taken her breath away, she says “this is a toughie… that must be the Angkor temples in Cambodia - not the Angkor Wat itself but the smaller temples -  especially Ta Phrom - where ancient trees hold the temple in their grip - it is a truly awesome sight - sends shivers down my back…”

Chitra Aiyer - Ta Phrom

Ta Phrom temple

Visit Itchy Feet to get more of Charu’s travel stories.

Note: Both the pics posted here are Charu’s. Please do not use them without permission.